Yesterday i bumped into a friend 'Tim' on the way home from work. Anyway to cut a long story short - i encouraged him to observe the “Three Day Rule” regarding when to call a girl after getting her number. The popular wisdom is that by waiting three days to re-establish contact you can fool her into thinking you’re not as desperate as you probably are. It’s a solid strategy and a good rule of thumb for amateurs but one that fast becoming (if not already) sussed out by young ladies.But there is a more technical crafty approach only for the skilled....the four day rule!
Waiting 4 days gives you a considerable edge over those women that think they have you all figured out.
So if everyone swears by 3 days - why 4? The answer is simple my friend, if everyone has heard of the 3 day rule, you can bet women have too - by waiting an extra day, you add an element of mystery.
When do i call? Best time to call - middle of the day - you are more likely to get an answer phone, leave a message, that way the ball is in their court to call you back.
EXCEPTION TO THE RULE: If you have bet with said woman that you will call at certain time then bet must be upheld.
For those of you who have started dialog with said chick/guy i often get asked what happens if i text and there is no reply?
My answer
A. Move on to the next chick
B. If you want to show you are interested but not too interested - then the 2 text rule.
How does this work? If you have had no response to your last message - rule of thumb, only ever text twice more - one to say (i cant remember if i replied to you but....) the other a few days later (2days) as a general enquiry of wellbeing. If there is still no reply - i refer you back to option A
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